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Difficulty setting social boundaries for conversation duration

πŸ’š healthsocial problemSingle report ●●●●● severity 3/5

An autistic individual reports difficulty ending phone or video conversations without feeling rude, leading to social exhaustion and withdrawal. The reporter struggles to enforce pre-agreed time limits, often feeling trapped in long, draining interactions because they feel unable to use excuses to end calls.

Who's affected: The reporter, an autistic individual who struggles with social exhaustion.

⚠️ Single report. This is one person's account. We mark it so until more voices confirm it.

What people do today

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Ideas a builder, maker or community group could start on:

  1. A mobile app that acts as a 'social timer' which sends a pre-scheduled notification or alarm to the user's phone during a call to provide a neutral, external reason to end the conversation.
  2. A library of scripts or templates for neurodivergent individuals to use that politely and clearly communicate the need to end a conversation without needing to provide a false excuse.
  3. A coaching service or peer support group focused on practicing 'social exit' techniques and setting boundaries with friends and family.
I want to build this

Real voices

β€œI don't know how to excuse myself from these conversations because I don't want to be rude.”

Source: Stack Exchange (interpersonal) Β· CC BY-SA 4.0, user-contributed content from Stack Exchange; summarized and modified

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